Weird and Unwanted Reactions and Repercussions from Others

What do you think when people want to take you from a relationship you have with an older adult and say they can provide the emotions for you instead?  Like maybe your life isn't that great and the world is getting messed up.  I mean, it wasn't really a pleasant experience.  I think it's like they wanted to take the relationship I have for themselves to "look up to."  It's like they tried hard to do what they did, and they didn't really make a statement.  They are incredibly annoying in what they judged of me and what they "just had to do."  I know I can make those people happy, but someone must have gotten them to be really annoying to me.  I mean, people all used to respect me.